Who we are

A Hidden Gem in the Hills of Fallbrook, California

Nestled in the rolling hills of beautiful Fallbrook, California, Arashi’s Lair is more than just a bed and breakfast or event venue—it’s a sanctuary for the soul, a place where the pace of life slows and meaningful connections take center stage. Owned and lovingly operated by Barbara Byers, this breathtaking retreat was born from a heartfelt vision: to create a space where guests can truly disconnect from the chaos of everyday life and reconnect with themselves, nature, and the people they love most.

Unlike conventional bed and breakfasts, Arashi’s Lair offers an immersive, all-inclusive experience. It's a place where rustic charm meets refined comfort, where every corner is thoughtfully curated to offer peace, beauty, and joy. Guests are welcomed into a serene and nurturing environment, where the noise of the outside world fades, and personal well-being becomes the priority.

From curated wine tours through local vineyards to gourmet meals prepared with fresh, seasonal ingredients, Arashi’s Lair invites guests to slow down and savor life’s simple pleasures. Join a guided meditation under the open sky, gather with friends for a family-style dinner on the patio, or enjoy a quiet morning coffee with panoramic views of the hills—every experience is designed to relax, inspire, and restore.

In addition to unforgettable getaways, Arashi’s Lair specializes in hosting full-scale weddings and events, with everything you need available right on site. Whether you're planning an intimate elopement or a celebration for up to 200 guests, our property offers multiple scenic ceremony locations, a spacious patio for dinner and dancing, and a variety of indoor and outdoor gathering spaces. With a massive driveway, ample parking, and sprawling grounds, we can accommodate everything from live music and tented receptions to fire pit gatherings and sunset toasts.

Best of all, we take care of it all—from event planning and coordination to full-service catering and personalized décor. Our experienced team, led by Barbara herself, works closely with each guest to bring their vision to life, handling the details so you can focus on what truly matters: enjoying the moment and being present with the people you love. Whether it's a wedding, birthday, reunion, or retreat, Arashi’s Lair transforms events into effortless, meaningful celebrations.

Here, you don’t just visit—you exhale. You laugh louder, rest deeper, and reconnect more fully. Come experience the magic of Arashi’s Lair—a hidden gem, a labor of love, and a destination unlike any other.

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